How to Have a Personal Wedding With Intention in Mind

Loraleah Marie Photography

Over the years, I’ve seen hundreds of weddings — from behind the camera, behind the scenes, and now, from the heart of my venue, Takk House. And if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s this: the most memorable weddings aren’t the biggest or the most expensive. They’re the ones that feel personal, thoughtful, honest, and full of the couple’s energy.

At Takk House, we design weddings with intention. That doesn’t mean everything is perfectly planned or Pinterest-ready. It means we slow down, listen to what matters most, and build a day around the things that feel real to you.

So, if you’re starting to plan your wedding and want it to feel like an actual reflection of your relationship — here are a few thoughts on creating a celebration with soul.

1. Start with why

Before diving into vendors, colors, or even guest lists, ask yourselves:
What do we want this day to feel like?
What matters most to us?
What are we trying to celebrate — really?

This is your anchor. Everything else can flow from it.

2. Don’t be afraid to let go of tradition

You don’t have to do a bouquet toss. Or have matching bridal parties. Or serve chicken or steak. If it doesn’t feel like you, leave it behind. Weddings should reflect who you are, not who the wedding industry expects you to be.

3. Focus on the senses

Ask: What do we want people to smell, see, taste, and hear when they walk in?

Maybe it's the scent of locally grown flowers. Maybe it’s your favorite record playing as guests arrive. Maybe it’s a delicious meal that reminds you of your first date. Small details rooted in meaning leave a big impression.

4. Prioritize connection over perfection

Perfect is boring. A little crooked flower arch or mismatched glassware will never matter as much as making space for laughter, joy, and togetherness. If it feels like love, it’s working.

5. Choose vendors who truly get you

Working with people who see your vision and share your values will make your life so much easier. When you’re surrounded by a team that’s in sync with your vibe, you can let go and trust the process.

At Takk House, we do a limited number of curated weddings each year because we want to give each couple the time, space, and care they deserve. Whether you're going all-in with us or planning something more DIY, our approach stays the same: thoughtful, flexible, and always with heart.

There’s no one “right” way to get married — but if you lead with intention, you’ll end up with something that’s deeply yours.

Thanks for being here. I can’t wait to share more from behind the scenes soon — real weddings, slow flowers, cozy recipes, planning tips, and little stories from the journey.

With Love & Gratitude

– HB